{"id":741,"date":"2007-05-21T20:19:29","date_gmt":"2007-05-21T18:19:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/en.greenmedia.md\/?p=741"},"modified":"2007-05-21T20:19:29","modified_gmt":"2007-05-21T18:19:29","slug":"gnmparents-greening-your-spouse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/gnmparents-greening-your-spouse.html","title":{"rendered":"GNMParents: Greening Your Spouse"},"content":{"rendered":"
Have you seen Ed Begley, Jr.<\/a>'s show Living With Ed<\/a>? If you missed it, it's a "reality" show that follows Ed and his wife, Rachelle Carson, as they go about their daily lives. <\/p>\n Why would following this couple around be interesting? Because Ed is "green" and Rachelle isn't. <\/p>\n I made sure to set it up in my Tivo because I didn't want to miss one episode. You see, their "green relationship" is mine and my husband's, only reversed. I thought that I'd glean some tips on how to Dave and I have been together for more than 14 years and I feel I've scarcely made an impact on him. Despite all my efforts over the years, he continues to choose eco-unfriendly behaviors: he throws recyclables in the trash, he'll put a disposable diaper (used for away from home) on our son instead of cloth, and he keeps "the pedal to the metal", even if the light's red up ahead. <\/p>\n I am completely frustrated by his lack of interest in choosing the environmental option and don't know what to do about it. I've tried so many different ways to encourage his environmentalism: <\/p>\n None of them seem to have made any impact. <\/p>\n I told Dave about the series and was surprised to find out he was interested in watching it with me. And although we both found the show quite funny, I soon regretted "letting" him watch it. <\/p>\n Not only did the series not give me any <\/em>ideas on how to help my husband, it made my point even more arguable to him. While we were both laughing at the show, we were laughing at different things: Dave would laugh at "what" Rachelle was saying while I would laugh at the fact that she was saying it. <\/p>\n Ed also has the finances to live the kind of green lifestyle that I'd love to live, even if it is probably <\/em>more extreme than I'd ever be. Dave saw Ed as a zealot, his lifestyle unrealistic – at least for us and most others. Still, a lot of what Ed said (to Rachelle or to the cameras) were reminiscent of things I've said to my husband. <\/p>\n What I just don't understand is why don't the points that make environmentalism important to me make it important to my husband<\/em>? <\/p>\n Now my husband is in his 40's and I'm wondering: Is he too set in his ways? Can I have hope that we won't be having these discussions when he's in his 80's? <\/p>\n Or do I need to get over my frustration that he's just tolerating <\/strong>my green ways instead of embracing them himself? I've heard there will be a second season of Living With Ed<\/em>. It's my hope that this time the show will highlight the "why's" of the choices Ed\u00b9s making and be more educational, instead of it being a showcase of the back-and-forth between Ed and his wife about the choices around their house. Then I might finally <\/strong>get some ideas to use Mr. Begley, care to share some tips with me?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Editor's note: This week, GNMParents writer Barb Lattin asks for your suggestions — how do you "green" your spouse? Have you seen Ed Begley, Jr.'s show Living With Ed? If you missed it, it's a "reality" show that follows Ed and his wife, Rachelle Carson, as they go about their daily lives. Why would following […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-741","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/741","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=741"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/741\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=741"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=741"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/salvaeco.org\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=741"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}Editor's note: This week, GNMParents<\/a> writer Barb Lattin asks for your suggestions — how do you "green" your spouse?<\/em><\/p>\n
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